YOU ARE THE DIRECTOR AND PLAY WRITE OF YOUR LIFE

It's quite amazing how the phases of our life unfolds like scenes in a movie, if you can connect with that simple illustration then, it's easy for me say your life is not a movie playing in a cinema and you were chanced to get a ticket to watch it in 3D, you're the director and the play write of what are watching or seeing in your life. It's a truth that brings a sledge hammer down our heads, facts are not like advise that you take or leave they are undispuitable.
I once lived in the shadows of what i didn't want my life to be like at some point in my life, thinking my life was a function of other things except me moulding it into my own, here are some classified reasons.

PEOPLE:
1. Friends don't see me fit
2. My DAD calls all the shot
3. I was'nt given enough opportunity
4. My teachers are sadist

CIRMCUMSTANCES:
1. I'm not from a rich home
2. I don't have the opportunity it takes
3. I'm not like them
4. This side of the world don't permit such

CHOICES:
1. My Dad made me study this course
2. I had no mentor to guide me
3. Parents are not supportive

its not an exhaustive list but the rudiment was i took my life like everyother person and everyother reason was responsible for my mediocrity except me, someone once said there are two perspectives to everything in life, take for example a glass having little quantity of water in it, someone can say its half filled another can also say it's half empty depending on their mindset, excuses are quite easy to make depending on how you choose to run your life or how you want to see it, no pain and it just feels good to escape the moment, it result is definetly unavertible negatively. Nobody and No-reason is responsible for where you are right now, its a decision you made a long time ago to settle for the fact that you aint responsible for the direction of your life though you might not have forseen it that way, the reality of the decsion to excuse yourself or sit in the audience seat of your life are the results you see now the pains, low self esteem, angry at yourself, depression and retrogression. Sometimes it's beautiful to seat at the audience seat just to have a glimpse of the outlook and change perspective but it's not a permanent seat for the wise, someone said "experience is the best teacher if it's not yours" -John Mason, stop making bad experiences in your life your teacher, change seats.
After knowing all of these the last thing you want to do at this stage is to blame the result on another again else the cycle continues till you become the master of it. What needs to be done now is "if you dont like it you change it", and that is simply getting in the director and play write seat of your life, its stuning how the director and the play write make an amazing movie that trills us and we want to watch it over and over, they make those scenes out of next to nothing just bunch of juggled scripts, people, faint ideas and determination to make a brilliant piece. i want to tell you you can become a living legend even if your life is below the ground at the moment, it all starts with taking the right turn right now, make a decision to sit where you should seat and see from the right perspective. My slogan for living "is the past is history, the present is the past, the future is now its my chance" let go of the past, clear the board, make new decisions, have faith, try, persist and you will get new result soon, from me to you revolutionalizing lifes.

BY - Oluwatayomi Adegboye